When we neglect to engage in appropriate communication at home, work, and in our communities, we are suffocating and limiting our ability to grow in any direction. Just observe how little children struggle to assemble. Many children who are older than two and are fluent in a particular language typically learn to collaborate rather well. Those who are not fluent in multiple languages feel quite irritated and occasionally turn to abuse, such biting, in an effort to solve their problem. We also know grownups who battle irritation and resentment as a result of their communication issues.